Social Media & Technology CYP

Why are young people and adults today so attached to their phones? What makes getting likes on platforms like Facebook and Instagram so significant? Are these questions you've pondered as a parent or educator? If so, I may have some insights to share.

As a professional who works extensively with children and young people, I initially found this phenomenon perplexing. What does it really mean to receive likes on a post? Many young individuals derive their sense of validation from the number of shares or comments rather than their personal achievements.

This new generation, raised in the age of social media, is entering adulthood with limited preparation for life beyond the classroom. Today’s youth don’t have to wait for anything—whether it's ordering from Amazon Prime for next-day delivery or bingeing an entire season of their favorite show in one sitting. This instant gratification means they often struggle with patience and resilience, skills that are crucial for future success in the workplace and in social situations.

It’s important to recognize that this isn’t the fault of young people; it’s simply the world they were born into, and they navigate it without choice. I came across an insightful speaker who discusses how modern technology and social media create a sheltered and, at times, unrealistic environment for young individuals.

I encourage you to check out the link below, which offers a clear explanation of the impact of social media and technology on today’s youth.

As parents’, model good behaviour! at the the end of the day your children look up to you.

No mobiles or tech at the dinner table.

No use dinner time to talk

No mobile phones at bedtime this inhibits sleep. Tech before bed stimulates the brain making it harder to go to sleep, can disturb your sleep and this makes a better sleep hygiene

Young people will say I need it for my alarm! go and buy them an alarm for £5 as they won’t get up anyway!

As parents try not to get frustrated this is their world, do things that mean they have to connect with you and others.

go for walks

bake

FIND SOME SORT OF CONNECTION!

Do things together even if this is understanding why tech is so important to them.